Joyce Gruntler Barickman
Joyce Gruntler Barickman peacefully passed away on July 25, 2023, in Richmond, VA, at the age of 88. She was born on March 13, 1935, in Rochester, NY, to Oscar Walter and Mildred Estelle (Bean) Gruntler.
While attending Sacred Heart Academy in Rochester, Joyce also studied piano, harp, and flute at the Eastman School of Music and later attended Nazareth University. Soon after, she moved to Charleston, WV, to join her parents, where she met Woody Barickman, the love of her life, on a blind date. They married 3 months later and spent the next 35 years raising their family in Charleston, later moving to Wilmington, NC, and to Naples, FL.
Joyce’s life was one filled with passion and purpose. Her love for her husband, children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren was immense. Joyce embraced each moment with enthusiasm and exquisite taste. While raising their 4 children, Woody and Joyce’s homes were havens for family and friends, as they entertained them with grace and warmth, creating lasting bonds and treasured moments.
Joyce had a multitude of passions that kept her busy. Whether it was shelling on the beach, playing tennis or bridge or gardening, she always found joy in creating. She leaves behind countless needlepoint creations, as well as hand woven and knitted heirlooms. Her decorator’s eye was impeccable.
With Woody by her side, they travelled the world, sometimes re-tracing Woody’s travels while fighting in WWII. Joyce loved planning each and every trip, and her journals and photos will be cherished for generations to come.
Joyce is preceded in death by her parents, her brother Donald Gruntler, and her beloved husband of 52 years, L.E. “Woody” Barickman. Joyce will be forever missed by her four children: Mark (Elizabeth) and their children, Matt and Anna; Donald and his children, Stuart (Alison) and William (Gina); Mike (Sarah) and their children, Lilly and Haden; and Lucinda (John) Stanchina and their children, Bayn (Callie), Woody, and Joe. She also leaves behind three great-grandchildren, Norah, Riley, and August, who brought her much joy in the last days of her life.
A funeral Mass to honor and remember Joyce will be held at Sacred Heart Co-Cathedral in Charleston, WV, at 10:30 a.m., Friday, August 11, 2023, with a private inurnment at Eventide Cemetery in Spencer, WV.
In lieu of flowers, please make a donation to your favorite charity.
Memories of Joyce may be shared by visiting http://snodgrassfuneral.com and selecting the obituary. Snodgrass Funeral Home, South Charleston, is handling the arrangements.
Mike, Mark, Don and Lucinda,
God bless you all. Your mom was a real go getter and one the nicest persons I was privileged to know growing up in Charleston WV.
I still remember seeing her “glad to see you smiling face” almost every day. Always one of the first customers we would see in the morning.
And, I remember seeing your dad on Saturday mornings driving up Bridge Rd in his favorite convertible! Both of your parents were wonderful witty people.
May the Lord bless and surround you during this difficult time.
Rick and Brenda Ellis
Dear Mike, Don, Lucinda and Mark:
I have such fond memories of both your parents, and I loved visiting your home. Your mom, to me, was the epitome of grace and gentility, and always so kind and welcoming. (And I’ll never forget Woody’s fabulous car!)
Sending all of you prayers and peace. You were blessed to have a mom like Joyce. Such a beautiful lady.
All the best, Mimi Imbrogno
Sending heartfelt condolences on Joyce’s passing, many fond memories of Joyce and Woody. God be with Joyce, God Bless the Barickman Family.
Mike, Sarah and Family,
Sending you well thoughts during this time of grief to your entire family. Lots of Love, Melissa
Sending love and hugs to all. Jan
Mark,
I’m sorry for your loss your mom was such a beautiful lady, always welcoming , every time I drive or walk by the house in south hills it makes me smile.
Love Susan Femia
Joyce was my best friend. Fly high dear Joycie! I will miss you! So many years of beautiful memories. I’m sure Woody and my Freddy are there to welcome you. We always had so much fun. My sincere condolences to Mark, Don, Mike and Lucinda and their families.
Barbara Sieverts
Dear Don, Mark, Mike, and Lucinda,
I am so sorry for your loss. Your mother and your home was a huge part of my childhood. My mother (Nancy Griffith) was your parents housekeeper for many years when they lived in Charleston, WV. Joyce had such a creative personality that was very inspirational and will be missed.